So today was my first day as a volunteer. My boyfriend and I volunteer at a children’s home. My job is basically to help kids with their homework. There are a number of Afrikaans kids who don’t have anyone to help them with homework as all the social workers are either English or Zulu. So, I mainly focus on the Afrikaans kids (especially the girls).
Today was an eye-opener for me and it made me think about how ungrateful I really am. During a casual conversation with one of the girls (13 years old) she made it clear that she hates all the rules at the children’s home. Of course I told her that rules aren’t always bad and I told her that I know how it feels to have soooo many rules because my mom is quite strict. Her response to this was something along the lines of: “yeah my dad is also very strict! Once my brother and I had to run away from because he was hitting us with bricks! I was purple for weeks!”
Shocked at this response, I looked at her and noticed that she didn’t seem to be phased about it. I guess in a place like that you live with people who have been through the same kind of stuff you have. I guess it becomes normalised.
She also said to me: “you know, last year my dad gave me R300!!!” … now, R300 is a lot of money and everything, but last year is long gone. Her dad should make more effort with regards to taking care of her. I asked her if she bought herself something awesome to which she responded: “YES! I bought myself some toiletries and yogurt”. This made me really sad because to me, toiletries and yogurt are normal things on my shopping list. When I get R300 I usually spend it on something like a game because toiletries and yogurt are necessities and not luxuries.
I have to say I was quite lost today as I didn’t know quite what to do. I asked everyone if they had homework and of course, everyone said no (damn teenagers!) I did however introduce myself to all the girls and the social workers. The children’s home has really awesome staff. You can really see that all the social workers care really deeply about all the children. They are quite strict, but in a good way! Although they try really hard the kids live primarily on handouts and donations. You can see that by looking at the state of their clothes, schoolbags and rooms.
The girl I looked after today took me to her room to get some notes because she had to study for a test. She opened her closets and they were all sooo messy – just papers everywhere! She has no files or folders to put her work in and she had no highlighters to study with. I think I should take some folders with when I go next week. It feels good to do something just for the love of the matter and I’m quite looking forward to next week.
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